Being able to visit my big brother in San Francisco for 4 uninterrupted, action-packed yet relaxing days was incredible. What’s even more incredible was getting to see how absolutely amazing he doing, not just in his career, but with life in general.
My trip started with an uneventful early-Thursday-morning flight from Toronto to SF. I had a window seat by the emergency exit with lots of leg room but no TV (or so I thought, until I asked the guy beside me to switch seats cause he was just sleeping anyway, only to have him pull out a TV from the arm rest about 10 minutes later *embarrassing!*). I got off the plane, made my way to baggage claim and gave him a giant hug. We headed to ‘The Bart’ (SF’s transit system, a mix of the GO Train and TTC) and chatted as we made our way towards the downtown area (I’m sure there is a specific neighbourhood name for it, because SF seems to be filled with different neighbourhoods from one block to the next).
Before heading to his kitchen (he's an Excutive Pastry Chef, at Absinthe Brasserie & Bar and Arlequin Café & Food to Go by the way) we grabbed a Vietnamese tofu sandwich (marinated tofu with hot pickled veggies on a french baguette) from Saigon Sandwich, this tiny little hole-in-the-wall that was overflowing with who I imagine to be regulars. We then walked a few more blocks in some direction to his kitchen, which is about half-a-block from his restaurant. We went in, he introduced me to his staff (yes, he has his own staff!), sat down and ate. If you’re ever in SF and have 3 bucks in your pocket, go to Saigon Sandwich and order the tofu. For real.
His kitchen was nice and big, bright, uncluttered, clean and lively. There were 4 or 5 other people milling about doing what they do. Within about 5 minutes of getting there he had checked in with everyone to see how they were, that things were going well, that they were feeling better; making menu decisions, sharing new ideas, and other impressive things like that. Like he knew what he was doing or something!
After we finished our lunch we got “chef-suited up” and he put me to work. My first task was to make rhubarb stock for a Rhubarb Ice Cream Float he was adding to the menu. It involved chopping rhubarb, peeling lemons, splitting vanilla beans, adding sugar, wine and water, and letting it simmer for an hour or so. He was constantly pulling things from shelves, the fridge and freezer, handing me spoons and saying “try this”. I can’t remember everything that I sampled, but I know it was all good (check out his menu). The best though was the Espresso S’more he saved for me (he even put it in a container and wrote my name on it!).
Next I cut about exactly 120 Mylar (I think it was Mylar) sheets for molds he was making for an event he’s doing in Pebble Beach. It started out being really tedious, but being the crafty person I am I just created a template and banged them out like it was nothing. Hopefully he’ll continue doing it that way and it’ll streamline the process in the future. Then we went for a tour of the restaurant (Absinthe Brasserie & Bar) and café (Arlequin Café & Food to Go).
It was amazing getting to spend the day in my brother's kitchen. See how he works. Tasting his desserts. Contributing!
After he was done with everything he needed to do we grabbed a latte from Blue Bottle Coffee, got back on the Bart and headed to Oakland, where we were greeted by his lovely wife and chauffeured to their home where we were then greeted by two very excited dachshunds. We hung out for a bit until it was time to head back to the airport to pick up the boyfriend. By the time we got back to their place I had been awake for 23 and a half hours and was more than ready to hit the hay!
Over the rest of the weekend we toured around San Francisco, saw all the sights, like Lombard Street, Alcatraz, the Ferry Buildings, sea lions, Bonita Point, Muir Woods. We covered a lot of the city on foot and ate the most amazing food, including an 8-course dinner and 5-course dessert at Michael Mina that might just be the best-quality meal I’ll ever have the pleasure of eating in my life – they don’t mess around.
We went to the farmers market at the Ferry Building on Saturday morning where my brother seemed to know everyone, and everyone knew him. It was like walking around with a celebrity! He’s going to be famous one day. Soon.
To say that I am proud of him is an understatement. I am in awe of everything that he has been able to accomplish for himself through hard work and raw talent. If you are ever in San Francisco go to Absinthe Brasserie & Bar and order one of everything on the dessert menu. Guaranteed you won’t be disappointed!